some folks don’t have the metabolism and will need to Converting to 11-hydroxy in some other fashion (go all Hannibal Lecter on it)
others don’t know THC from THCA.
if it works on others and not on you, your decarb was sufficient.
My money is on the other possibility.
tell us more about your process…
no. meaning actually decarboxylated.
“soaking for 10min” in a rice cooker will not get the job done.
hit the search bar. read up on decarb.
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I use the evolution of CO2 (its cessation) as my end point marker. whether decarbing BHO for edibles at 100oC or crude in an SPD at 140oC
maybe start near the beginning, with the teachings of @Graywolf: decarboxylation 101