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Local ifixit spots.
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Thank you
I’m gonna be bumping this till Christmas ,
That’s real love and super appreciated
Not too hard at all - the only caveat would be if you need to manually unlock the phone via the home screen. Do you know if the digitizer is still working? Text me and i can answer way quicker bro
Today we’re doing a candle light vigil with the community. This is going to be one of the hardest days I’ll ever have as I have to tell my daughter she won’t be able to see her cousins another day… fuck man idk what to do
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A candle is lit in my heart.
Just do the next indicated thing, Will. This weight is only made lighter when it is carried together. In our house, we would talk about how much we miss them but that we will see each other again. We would talk about how important good memories are and try to remember something to laugh about, even just for a second.
This would be a way to emphasize the preciousness of life and how important it is that we are all good to each other and act in safe ways. Depending on the ages of your kids, they might be afraid that this could happen in their home and it is important to tell them the things you are doing to keep them safe at home. Show them the smoke detectors. Remind them what to do if they hear them. Remind them what they can do to stay safe from fire and remind them of the safety plans you have in place for them.
I know it feels like the whole world is off its axis, it is. This is devastating. The more you can do to remind your children, and yourself, that you still have influence and control in this life in lots of ways, the more you will remove a layer of worry from over their grief.
Kids grieve differently. Do yourself a favor and when you can, listen to a podcast or two about it. It will help your kids if you understand how they process things. Don’t be surprised if they seem really ok at times. They have an amazing way of protecting themselves when they need to. Let them be right where they are. Crying or not. Sad or not. Don’t be disappointed or surprised if they just want a regular Christmas. Try to keep their routines and do the tings that seem impossibly mundane given your own grief. Do them anyway. It is hard, but try to keep some things normal.
God bless you and your family. Big, big hugs. message any time.
Thank you cat so much
This is all such an unreal nightmare. All the kids knew how to escape… the fire started in the foyer and traveled up the only set of stairs and trapped them all in the same bedroom. With no way out. We’ve been told that a neighbor tried to rescue them he was transferred for smoke inhalation.
My dad is the local fire investigator so we’ve always been very thorough with our kids and family knowing escape routes and meeting places. This was just a very unfortunate situation that is crushing us all with the weight. We’re all carrying it together but man is this fuckin heavy.
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That’s heartbreaking. Ugh. My heart is heavy with yours.
Thank you all for your kindness and love, today was one of the hardest days yet. Reality still hasn’t hit me and I’m not ready for it too.
I had to break the new to my daughter today and I lost it.
My deepest condolences. I hope your family can find some peace after such a tragedy.
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Thank you all so much from the bottom of my heart.
It’s gonna be a long painful hurt.
I’d never wish this shit on anyone.
I’ll never be able to pick up my nephews from school again, I’ll never be able to have my daughter do play dates with them again. She’ll never get the chance to know her cousins more like I did as a child. That fucking kills me inside. It makes me sick to my stomach.
When I close my eyes or even blink right now all I see is what those children saw inside that fucking room.
They found my nephew shielding the two younger ones. That absolutely warms my heart to know he is a hero, forever.
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Last night we had a family meeting about the arrangements. This shits so hard, it’s taking the whole village to get it all done and keep everything organized. Our community and everyone everywhere including those of you here, I wholesomely thank you for stepping up and helping my family while in this time of pain and sorrow. I know it means the world over to my brother as he got to be in our industry for a bit working under me and learning. I’ve watched him go through so much tragedy these last two years and I am heart broken seeing him have to endure this pain along with the mothers. I’d never wish this on anyone.
man i am so sorry.
It warms my heart to see that the go fund me is x2 what they were asking for and that the funeral home is covering the costs of the services. Good people do exist. In tears for you and your brother man.