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Technically in Discourse just admins have access to another persons account, including DMs, as @Future posted above. Vultr does the hosting. I and them are the only ones with access to a system console (ssh) including database, files, logs and such. I am the only one with the gpg keys to the backups.
Treat anything you do here like it’s happening in a public place.
If both users delete the DM it gets purged from the live DB.
Use GPG, end to end free to use (open source) encryption. I understand easier said than done, but a quick online search of gpg+yourOS will get you well on your way.
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